QUOTE (kayemod @ Mar 1 2011, 19:15)

He doesn't really have all that much choice though does he, what else can he do?
It's all pretty similar in tone to a long and wholly unapologetic interview that appeared in the Financial Times two or three weeks ago, one unspoken theme of which was that his wife doesn't want him under her roof. This is no doubt why he's bought himself a second house not too far away, where apparently he lives all alone, though in his case, I doubt if this necessitates two mortgages.
Well that's between him and his wife really. I'm sure he has made his apologies to those close to him privately a long time ago. I'm not sure he needs to do so again on Radio 4. If he lives in another house to his wife then so be it. Sometimes couples who have been together a long time decide to do that. But his point is that's their business not ours. We've no right to judge him on that or even be told about it. I would suggest if a man is being spanked with a whip once a week or whatever, he perhaps doesn't have the closest of physical relationships with his wife anyway.. otherwise she would have asked 'why is your backside the colour of a beetroot' a long time ago.
I think he answered all the questions put to him and he had a good case. There was no nazi element. There was no full sex. It was just a bit of spanking and role play. He had done it for years and it was doing no one any harm. It wasn't having any impact on his job or role at the FIA. The story being printed caused lots of harm. He is clearly very open about the subject.. to a point where I suspect he may even be enjoying talking about it all, but then people who are interested in BDSM etc are generally open about the subject of sex anyway.
I think the NOTW seriously under estimated his character and how far he would push this. One call to Bernie would have tipped them off that he would take a hold of this story and not let go for a long time. I hope he gets success. I felt the story was an invasion of privacy at the time and I still do. It changed nothing other than selling more papers and causing his family distress. The 'well he shouldn't have been doing it anyway' argument doesn't excuse the publishing imho.