He admitted it.
Well, I've seen the whole BBC Malaysia replay and cannot find a line where Alonso does blame himself. Only moment Alonso speaks is after Massa (about 1:10) and the transcriptions is as follows:
"Well I thought we had no more rain for the rest of qualifying, unfortunately it did rain so the track didn't improve at all in the last ten minutes so we went in the wrong place in the wrong moment, but..... the race is tomorrow, not today, we keep the confidence high."
"Yes, but hopefully I can change this situation [talking about previous race] in the next qualifying, but for sure today we have been a little bit unlucky
or we did some mistakes
. Tomorrow hopefully we will avoid those mistakes."
So IMHO my blame distribution was right, what are you trying to achieve? That's far from saying "the blame is 90% mine"
[BTW FA should improve his English skills]