This is where we all as 'fans' fail - F1 isn't just about the drivers - its about the team which the driver is a very visible part of. Vettel sits in a Red Bull Racing car - there isn't a single part in that vehicle he makes, paints, polishes or prepares. Not one single part in tens of thousands of parts. Hundreds of people work very hard to make the best car possible so that he can race it - in terms of results he is no more important than pretty much any of them - he is simply a performance component. Red Bull had a safe 1-2, at a team level it doesn't matter which way that 1-2 fell, they still get the points and ultimately the prize money those points bring. Vettel's actions in putting himself ahead of the teams needs and work risked both those points, the prize money (which is needed to keep the company running) and the overall result. For this he is wrong in every way shape and form. The team gets 'nothing' from a WDC other than the result, nothing! Vettel choose to put personal glory ahead of the 600 or so people who work tirelessly to make those cars that earned him his 3 WDC - selfish, childish and reckless.
So, no - the driver shouldn't be allowed to take such decisions as without the car under his backside he would be nothing and he owes respect and obedience to the team that put it there. Also - we should all keep in mind that the driver is the easiest component to swap out for a different one - they are not glued into the car, they slot out quite easily of their own accord - and as good as glory boy is - he is not the only one would who gets good results out of that car.
Both RedBull & Mercedes (Lauda & Wolff if not Brawn) has already been out last week saying they have scraped team orders with immediate effect!!! So in a way, it is quite obvious that the teams must have arrived at a conclusion that WCC is important to them while WDC is important to their Drivers.
If Malaysia orders were so good that every driver must adhere to it... then why did the teams scrap it?? Leaving Vettel's rebellion aside, Mercedes drivers followed the orders, so why aren't Merceds sticking with it for the whole season??
Like has been suggested in OP, you can't go racing predicting doomsday scenario between your drivers every weekend. So many people are complaining about the tyres being artificial... but what RBR & Mercedes tried to do was even more artificial as I suggested with the points tally difference. RBR as a team still have the maximum WCC points they have scored... but tried to rob a World Championship contender 7 points to his name. That's not selfish, it's mediocre thinking. Nothing to do with team orders etc... just very bad thinking overall.
As for your last opinion...it can easily be reversed and said that without a Driver, the car is nothing but a show piece. The team has a duty as well to think for it's drivers wellness... not treat them like servants as you are suggesting.
Edited by BackOnTop, 15 April 2013 - 11:06.