I wasn't going to bother but you're just writing so much crap.
1) If Vettel and Hamilton were paired you're delusional if you think the antagonism would come only from Hamilton's side. For a start Vettel has shown far more evidence of being political than Hamilton has, whether it's dinner with Mr Ecclestone, allowing Marko to be his attack dog or asking the team over the radio to "get Mark out of the way." Is Webber also a "self-destructive" person just like Hamilton? I suppose he must be given the toxic atmosphere between the Red Bull drivers; it certainly couldn't be anything to do with Vettel...
I have to agree with Sakae from a the point of view of public perception. Hamilton was the main cause of fireworks over at McLaren - attracting and/or causing 90% of the drama. Vettel tends to keep things internal. Now in private, well that is another matter. I'd imagine you'd have bats flying from all corners.
But the private drama and Hamilton's public displays would be similar to what they had in 2010 at RBR - and that can be a big distraction for the team - and even for the drivers at times.