I think the main advantage is drivability to get the power applied/extracted smoothly to not allow the tyres to break away. Each team has to write the software to balance the source of the power whether it be from the ICE or the Kers or MGH-U and Mercedes have the advantage that they designed it and know it better than anyone else and they had a lot longer to work on it. Money to buy the best software engineers with experience of complex systems like the new PU's also helps.
I think the above explains why all the Merc powered cars have similar top speeds but Merc have the advantage everywhere else.
On top of this they have undeniably good aero
They also had longer to design a car round the unit and probably benefitted from the unit being partly designed to suit the proposed chassis design.
Also there is a limited amount of information that a manufacturer is going to be willing to share - there will be trade secrets about that engine that only Merc know about which is fair enough. Probably the specs they gave as to the maximum xyz are the safe operating windows of the components - but they know if you do abc you can get more power for short periods etc.
Basically they are the works team.