If you are on the "wrong side" and the hose reaches, there is no issue. Most of the time around here, the only pumps with long hoses are for diesel, so they can fill both tanks on trucks. The problem arrises when cars with fills on opposite sides face each other at a douple pump island and cars line up behind those facing each other at the island.Day in and day out, I see lines of cars facing each other at the islands in a standoff. It is worse at certain gas stations than others, and worse again when everyone is trying to fill their cars before a storm arrives, such as this past weekend in anticipation of Hurricane Sandy. Initially my suggestion was tonque in cheek based on observations, but why can't it be standardised?
I do see your point now I realise you're from New England. I'm from Old England where polite queuing has ben a national downfall for thousands of years. Also, petrol stations, like all things, tend to be smaller here & there are usually one way signs in & out or just a 'natural flow' to things.
I'd rather have your gas prices & suffer the queues though....