Big Lou's pomposity and autocratic behaviour did not sit well with Marlboro's finest, who finally thanked Mr Stanley for having accommodated them for their introduction into Formula 1 but who gladly accompanied Niki Lauda away from BRM to Ferrari for 1974.
Big Lou's grandiose schemes and ludicrously exaggerated predictions of BRM performance - always just round the corner, "as showing right now in the engine test house", etc - had been identified as such by Marlboro's switched-on account execs who were nowhere near as naive and gullible as he considered everyone to be (in comparison to his own towering intellect, capability, connections and self-considered enormous experience). Like so many blow-hards before and since he never read the writing on the wall...and when nemesis engulfed him and what he regarded as his team it was all, of course, someone else's fault...
I was not, and am not, a Louis Stanley fan - with very good evidential reason. What the likes of Sir Alfred Owen and Tony Rudd had largely created over so many years, to become an enormously strong team without a single weak link in the chain (until 1966), Stanley effectively destroyed into the early 1970s. Towards the very end of his life he finally developed the knack of presenting a mellow and gentlemanly face to the world - which included helping several of his past staff particularly when medical treatment was required. But from what I have been told by many involved with him, and affected by him and his little foibles, the old sometimes monstrous Big Lou very much survived not far beneath that plausible surface. A majority ascribe his good works very much to the good nature of his wife Jean, who seems to have been otherwise dominated by her husband right to the end of her life. In essence I think she was a pleasant and caring lady who also enjoyed a really good time - and for many years Stanley had ensured that her money provided it for her...and for himself. The BRM story is not one merely of motor racing itself - virtually all human life is there (plus some pond life).
DCN